God does not have a need to love you …
God is love and he ever is what he is towards everyone, god is never short of loving you.
God does not have a need to be loved…
To love is a human need. To love God is the only appropriate way to relate to God. To love others is the only appropriate way to relate to them.
The antithesis to love either God, others, and yourself is self-centeredness. It’s support are, injustice, hate, exclusivism, oppression and self-delusion.